So my daughter still sleeps with me she is two and this is what we want to do but so on Friday we brought my daughter to a harvest fest because her grandmother asked us to and she slept the entire time. Idk why but we had a sleep over that night with my nephew I let them eat some chocolate and she went to bed slept in super late. We went to her grandparents on Saturday was completely fine until he grandma ran her over with a computer chair on accident she had a meltdown so we leave and she was completely fine. So I felt my mil watching me and judging me as I was dealing w my daughter and I’m lik le whatever. The next morning she sends me a text message flipping out on me saying it’s my own fault that she behaves that way that she was up all night eating chocolate and that she needs to be in her own bed and that she’s not even discussing any of it with me she said the truth hurts.... so we let them be so involved and no they think they have a say in everything I can’t take it. I don’t even know how to handle this, how do we keep grandparents in their role? I just feel like completely backing off. I hate being judged like that