My Boyfriend’s Dad Is A Asshole

OK GIRLS! I KNOW THIS LONG BUT I SWEAR ITS WORTH IT! SO READ THIS AND TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK .. HOW YOU FEEL.. WHAT YOU WOULD DO... GO HAM IN MY COMMENTS!!!

So you would think that when you get a boyfriend you would have to worry about his mom more than his dad.. matterfact you probably wouldn’t even think of the dad because every girl should wanna have a good relationship with their S.O. mother .. and I DO ! I HAVE THE BEST RELATIONSHIP with my boyfriends mom. I even call her my mom. BUT HIS DAD .. OMG .. I can’t stand him.. he doesn’t say anything to me... LITERALLY NOTHING!!!

Let me just give y’all some wine because let me tell you ...

The first time I meet this man.. better yet SEEN HIM.. he walks SMOOTH PAST ME! Like I’m standing on the sidewalk walking towards him and he smoothly passes me up .. but he was going to meet my mama and now that I think about it I think he only came up to my house just to see what my mama looked like .. but I could be wrong.. but my boyfriend did tell me before he asked and I kind of was like .. what the hell.. but anyways I ended up introducing myself to him ! He didn’t greet me at all .. but he greeted my brother and my mama so when I seen him greet my brother I was like ok well maybe I should just introduce myself cause it was my first time meeting him .. and so that was that !

THEEN! I went to my boyfriends football game and I was sitting down with my boyfriends family and he came and sat down and didn’t say ANYTHING TO ME .. everybody greeting me and he doesn’t even look at me and I just felt so disrespected ! And meanwhile we watching my boyfriend play and everything he say is negative but anyways that’s just a fun fact

NEXTTTT we went on a whole college tour together for my boyfriend and what does he say to me ? NOT ONE MF WORD! And my boyfriend was occupied with the tour and I ended up by myself with his mom and dad so I went to the restroom and I came back and they went to the car and I already felt uncomfortable so I stood in the damn building by myself for like a hour

FUN FACT: My boyfriend use to always tell me how his dad use to try to hook him up with his friends daughters or whatever knowing that he talked to me like everyday

I say all that to say that I hate my boyfriends dad like so much like I have no respect for him at all and I know if I tell my daddy and all my uncles they would be on fire fr 😂 because they treat me like a princess and like why do someone like that when you never even tried to get to know me or my perspective

And ON TOP OF THAT .. me and my boyfriend had a whole argument over this and he basically said he talked to him about it at the first game he did it at but he just not gone change and my boyfriend also was like he can’t make his dad change his mind cause he a grown man and I just feel like if you really cared about me you would take the initiative and actually stand up for me because I know every time my boyfriend come around I make sure everybody good and not on no ignorant level because I wouldn’t want him feeling uncomfortable but like 🤷🏼‍♀️ everybody don’t got the same mindset as me ..

I also asked my boyfriend why he act like that and personally I felt like he was racist at first tbh .. ( I’m mixed btw and my boyfriend black) but then again my boyfriend play football and he said that his dad thinks I’m a distraction which was offensive as hell because I make sure my boyfriend doing good at every level but like I said he don’t know me.. but then again I’m not dating him so I don’t give a damn about him anymore

ALL I KNOW IS .. IF ME AND HIS SON GET MARRIED. ONE HE NOT GONE BE INVITED TO THE WEDDING .. & by that I mean his son can invite him but I’m GONE LET IT BE KNOW THAT MF NOT WELCOMED BY ME !!

🖕🏼 HIS BLESSING !!!