Labor and delivery drama advice! Rant

Im 38 weeks and panicking about family drama. How are you ladies dealing with family during the last few days or weeks of pregnancy? This is my first baby and I get everyone is all excited and wants to be a part of it but I am having a hard time finding a way to tell people I really don’t want anyone there except a few very close family members. People are already commenting on who is gonna see her first and that (blank) better not think they are going in first etc....Feelings are going to get hurt and I know I shouldn’t care but people are so dang pushy! The main person specifically is my dad who I speak with but I’m not super close with at all. He has this sense of entitlement and thinks he is gonna be there the second my daughter is born. I don’t want him around till I get home after a while honestly. How do I tell people that I am thinking about possibly not having anyone visit or see us till after a week of being home? How did you ladies handle it? Sorry for long post xoxoxo