Assaulted & strangled

This was days ago. WHY would there not be an arrest yet??? They keep telling me to get a restraining order, but the woman there said the two are not connected, and me getting a restraining order wouldn’t speed up his arrest, if there will be one.

My concern is, if they don’t care to arrest him, why bother having faith in a restraining order???

Days later and I’m still swollen and in pain from being slammed around and choked to the point I almost blacked out, which is a felony in NC.