Has an one had an std

As tmi it might be I started getting a bad pain down there a few days ago and asked my boyfriend to look, I’ve been with him 9 months and he only decided to tell me then he had Herpes but cause he hadn’t had and outbreak in over a year he didn’t think it would be a problem, turns out I now have it too and I’m in the most excruciating pain and I’m literally terrified to pee. A part of me is putting this poll up to have comfort that other people out there are going though it too and I thought people might be able to give me tips on how to deal with it because I’m not coping at all. I threw up three times today cause the pain was so bad and I’m on 5 tablets a day to get rid of it.