Is it too soon?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now. We talk about a future together quite often... kids, etc. It's starting to get quite serious but some things aren't happening that I kind of want to happen. I basically live with him, I'm there 90-95% of the time and I always have to pack an overnight bag... all my clothes, all my toiletries.. it's getting kind of annoying if I'm being honest. I don't have a drawer at his place, but I'd like to talk to him about it... the only thing I'm worried about is that his last relationship was very long (8 years), they lived together, and it ended extremely terribly so he said he wanted to take things kind of slowly with us.. should I talk to him about this yet or should I wait longer?
******I'm not planning on having a baby any time soon. I'm only 22, my bf is 25. Neither of us are ready.

Answer

Sounds reasonable! Just say you would like to be a little more organized so that you're not always living out of your bag.

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Definitely wait. 7 months is a very short amount of time. You could talk to him about his timeline maybe. I didn’t want to get engaged until we’d been living together a couple years. I think it’s important to make sure the relationship is very stable before you go jumping into having kids. There are tons of examples in here of woman who are breaking up while 7 months pregnant or break up a couple months after the baby is born. Just make sure the relationship is strong enough to handle the stress of a baby.

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if he wants to take things slowly I'd say to wait, babies put alot of pressure on relationships I'd just enjoy it at the stage you're at😊

Is it too soon?

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