Do you think communication with your partner influences BFP?

AF arrived 4/29 and I was 2 months late. I took approx 6 pregnancy tests and even went to an outpatient medical center to have them test me. My hubby disregarded all BFN that we were getting and insisted that we were pregnant. When AF arrived he was absolutely devastated. Long story short he admitted he has been TTC without telling me for the longest time lol! My heart melted. (Secretly i had been hoping we would get pregnant - unplanned). Do you think that us not communicating affected our fertility? We have never used condoms and I have never taken BC. Has this happened to anyone else? We have been married for 2 years and are stable... Now that it is all in the air were TTC together! I hope this makes a difference because the baby fever is out of control!