My husband lied

My husband went out with his friends last night. Because he rarely does anything and it was his friends bday. He said they were going downtown. Never would've thought in a million years he would lie but I had a weird feeling and checked his bank account (we still have separate). He was actually at beach bars... half hour from downtown. I called him out on it and gave him an opportunity to fess up. He continued to tell me he was downtown. Then I had to bring up that I looked and saw where he was and then he started making excuses. All in all I shouldn't have snooped and I apologized to him for that but he said he didn't tell me their plans changed bc he was afraid I would cause an argument for going elsewhere bc the birthday boy changed his mind. It hurts that he couldn't be up front before he left. This is first lie he's told me that I can actually prove was a lie. Now I'm questioning everything over something so stupid. It hurt so bad. I screamed at him, called him every name in the book, cried, threw a baby bottle at him. He eventually apologized and tried to justify his lie. I feel so dumb for how I acted but he really hurt me. He felt horrible. I felt horrible. We ended up having some breakthroughs though about long standing issues between us like little intimacy and no effort to enjoy each other. We just exist under one roof. I feel really weirded out today. I accepted his apology and he accepted mine but I secretly don not trust him now and I'm totally freaking out and depressed.