What would you do ?

Safiyyah

A baby is wonderful thing but it’s so stressful . Babies suppose to make couples happy but I feel my marriage is falling apart . I feel my husband is not on the same page as me !

I have a routine with the baby and he is ignoring it . Also I don’t know how many times I told him the baby needs to be in his car seat not only the car seat but the base as well . It’s driving nuts ! He claims he doesn’t matter ...

Anyways today the baby was sleeping and woke the baby up . I said let the baby sleep it’s time for his nap . He didn’t listen ! I was trying to explain that if the baby doesn’t nap well during the day he will not sleep at night . He didn’t let me explain and yelled at me and told me he was stress .

He said we are not going to last together but he refuses to let me put the baby in daycare so that I can work . I want to work !

After he woke up the baby ... the baby was crying of course and husband took the baby to the room and told me to leave . I don’t know how many times I have explained that a baby cannot stay away so long before becoming over tired .

I’m the one that suffers at night when the baby wont sleep ! And I have to rock the baby for 2 hrs ! I am very anxious .

What would you do ?