Do you ladies get annoyed when your husband goes out for a guys night out? First of let me point out that when my husband goes out and drinks he can’t control himself. Not sure if he just doesn’t care or if alcohol just makes him turn into a single young 20 year old. He’s gone out to bars where girl are half naked behind my back. I’ve even caught him talking to other girls while out with his boys. I’m positive if the opportunity comes up he will cheat. That’s why ever since I️ caught him in a bunch of lies I️ can’t trust him anymore. I️ never go out because I️ feel like once I️ got married I️ left that single life of going out to bars. I️ feel like that’s a place for single people to hook up. He doesn’t mind me going out but says as a married woman I️ should be home before 11pm because as a woman I’m more vulnerable to cheat. Well just last night he went out with a bunch of his friends for dinner and some drinks. Instead of just having dinner and drinks he was out for 6 hours bar hopping around the city and when I️ text him to ask if he’s okay he ignored my text and when I️ got upset and blew up his phone he told me not to worry and still lied and told me he was somewhere else and that’s what hurts me. He knows it bothers me when he goes out and he knows it took a lot for me to be cool with it but he decides to fuck it up. That’s why I️ don’t trust him. He was actually near the bars where he know he fucked up when I️ caught him in a photo talking to two girls. he lied straight to my face when I️ confronted him about it and told me I’m crazy because he was where he told me he was. Lately he’s being very shady about stuff, he constantly tells me that he loves me, but I️ don’t trust him. My gut tells me my husband secretly loves the single life. I’m very heartbroken because I feel like our marriage is falling apart due to other problems. I️ love my husband I️ just don’t trust him. I️ know it’s not healthy. It’s driving me crazy.