I’m so afraid of hurting my fiancé’s feelings. I feel like what used to turn me on in the bedroom is the opposite now. Ever since I gave birth almost 11 months ago, all my “pleasure spots” have shifted. We used to have amazing chemistry in the bedroom and now it’s hard to get turned on.

How do I tell him what he has always done to turn me on, now turns me off. He is such an amazing man and I don’t want to make him feel emasculated. I don’t finish nearly as much as I used to, and guilty confession, I’ve faked getting off more than not lately.

How do I get my sex life back?