I posted this similar topic yesterday but I'm looking for a few more responses and thought turning it into a poll might allow that. So here's the story. I went out with some female co workers on Friday night. I rarely ever go out because I love to spend my time with my husband. I ended up having way too much to drink to the point where I don't remember anything. The next day someone went to my husband and told him I kissed another guy at the bar. I learned about this when he came to talk to me about it because again, I don't remember a thing. He said he was very disappointed in my and how I let myself drink that much. I've been devastated ever since hearing this news. My husband told me he's not sure if he wants to stay with me and he needs time. He's been distant ever since which I understand but being that none of it was intentional and I was black out drunk, means there was no meaning to the kiss that I don't even remember, therefore I believe I should be given a chance to redeem myself and make everything right. I love my husband and I wouldn't know what to do if I lost him. I've promised to lay off the drinking so that this would never happen again. I also contacted the friend I kissed who agreed it was nothing and nothing more happened passed the kiss.Do you think this is something that can be forgiven? What can I do to keep my husband? I'm really not a horrible person I swear :( I've been eating myself up about it ever since and even called off from work today because I'm so depressed. Haven't eaten or drank since yesterday. How can I shake this? Thanks in advance.
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