confused and heartbroken

so my husband and I have been together for 10 years. we have a 4 year old and we are ttc the last 2 months. the thing is I dont know if I should continue to ttc because he works 6 days a week 9/10 hrs and then comes home and spends almost the rest of the night in his "man cave" all I do is ask him for some attention because I don't see him alot and I am so in love with him still and he tells me all I do is complain about him and I make him want to be away from him cuz he cant deal. so I told him if this is what its like after 10 years then I cant continue ttc because it feels fake or (one sided) I love him so much and just want our family to have time together. (which is so important to me because I grew up in a foster home and didn't have a family) he says im dramatic. I dont want to waste my time im 27 and want to have a happy family life. so he is turning 40 soon, is it the age difference? is it only going to get worse? am I overreacting and being dramatic like he says? am I being to needy?