I'm so upset

Chasity

We have been ttc for 5 months and Friday I was having cramping and spotting Saturday it was a little heavier so I wore a pad just in case... well now it's heavy... af was due today so I took a test and it was negative... I just found out that a good friend of ours is pregnant with her 6th child and they weren't even trying just using the pull out method... I'm devastated.... when will it be our turn?