Is it normal to bleed on my first time?

Ok so I’m 13 and today I had sex for the first time. So my boyfriend and I have been wanting to have sex for a long time and today we finally did it and it was great :) since we were both virgins we wanted to take it slow. At first we just cuddled, looked at memes together and laughed our asses off (couple goals am I right? XD). He hugged me really tight and we ended up making out and he started to touch my tits. I liked it and wanted him to do more. He then got in a position as if he were going to put his dick in me and so I asked if he wanted me to give him a blowjob. I did that for sometime then he laid me down and fingered me. He fingered me for a while and then he did some oral on me and we went back to fingering but with 2 fingers. I told him that I felt like I might be ready for his dick (btw yes he had a condom). He tried to put it in but it really hurt. I thought that maybe he might have been in a bad position so I adjusted him to a position that seemed right but it still hurt. I told him that I might not be as ready as I thought and asked him to pull out. I asked if I was bleeding and he said yes. The condom I guess had some lube on it so I don’t think it was because it was dry. We made a joke that maybe his dick is too big XD but from what I know the pussy (vagina) can fit any dick size. Also, he’s Asian so maybe his dick is small(?) but idk cuz he’s the only one I’ve fucked. I hope I’m ok and not “defected” or anything XD should I see a doctor? Thank you to anyone who answers :) Peace my dudes✌️