Need Some Advice about c-section & vaginal birth

I am pregnant with my second child. I am almost 10 weeks now. I had a c-section with my son because of meconium which caused me to have a fever of 104 with labor. It wasn't a great experience at first I dilated 7 1/2 cm and couldnt stop pushing so ended up having a c-section. He was also a week late I had him at 41weeks. After my c-section my fever finally broke and my son was healthy and don't get meconium in his lungs which was great. One of my Dr's wants to planned my second c-section to avoid the same problem but I'm not sure if I should. I have a hyperactivity 3 year old boy who I raise alone which I'm pretty sure I'll be raising this one on my own too. Need some advice if a vaginally birth could be successful or if the c-section is a better option.