I hate how everyone has told me "you're messing up your life having a kid at 19." No im not, I dont view this child as a burden, shes the best thing I've decided to do with my life. I'm married, I was graduated before I got pregnant. I knew what I was doing when I decided this. my husband and I were both ready for this gift when when we decided to leave the decision in God's hands. a false pregnancy showed us we both were ready, we were both in love with the thought of being bonded together by this child. I'm tired of being tested like a kid, I'm tired of someone telling me I've given up the best years of my life. because honestly I see this as a way to better myself. I love this child more than anything, she isnt viewed as a mistake or burden and will never be treated like one.