So I need something explained.

Polly • Im 24years old. My husband is 27. TTC #1 married on 09/14/13. 11months of TTC.
Me and my husband have been trying to conceive for 9 months now. We started this month on the 30th the next day my cm was the "fertile" clear watery egg white looking stuff. I wanted to BD when I got home from work but I was beat he was beat and it didn't happen. Did I miss my shot? I don't do ovulation test. Do you think because we BD the night before that if that was our shot we did it? I'm just really confused about the whole thing.