ok so me and my ex have been together a little over a year and he's broken up with me 4 times just out of the blue he will say he's not happy and wants to break up but days before our breakups he will be fine telling me how much he loves me and of course when he comes back and we get back together every time he's fine and tells me all over again how much he loves me and then bam! again he breaks up with me and tells me he's not happy. if he was really not happy why would he keep coming back to me. I really feel like deep down he does love me and is happy but I think he's scared of commitment. I love him to death and will do anything for him but I can't keep doing this to myself it's an emotional rollercoaster.