If you had to choose between your husband and father

Imagine if you walk into your husband and father having an argument at your parents house... your husband tells you to leave the house with him, but your father tells you to stay and not go anywhere. Who would you listen to?

Well I was in this situation and asked to know what the argument was about. I said that I wasn’t going to leave until I knew what was wrong. Let’s just say that my husband is very upset with me and apparently I disregarded him as my husband by not leaving with him when he asked me to