re-post because it didnt make sense before

my husband just told me i never put any pride in anything i do and that im hopeless because i am a SAHM (his choice not mine) home all day looking after our 8 month old child and it started because he wanted to go out for dinner but there was nowhere in particular i felt like going so i made a few suggestions and he lost it and was like well you are home doing nothing all day.. um excuse me i clean and cook and do laundry and mow the lawn and water the grass and do the shopping and look after our child and train an hour in the garage. i understand this is all involved in home duties which is why i never complain but really hopeless? i wish i could work as well but hedoesnt want me to ! grr im so annoyed.