My home

When my husband and I got married his family built houses for a living. My husband built us a house on a nice little 10 acres in the country. We lived there around 5 years when his grandpa was diagnosed with cancer and given a small amount of time to live. His family (parents and grandparents) all live close together. Anyways his grandpa approached my husband about us buying his house since it was so big and to much for him and his wife to care for. Our house was feeling small with two kids and the house and land his grandpa owned joined my father in laws where he runs cattle so my husband hated to have someone move in so close to his parents. So we agreed to sell our house buy his grandpas house and half the land that has 3 barns on it. The grandpa built a new small house across the field. He told us before we moved we would own the house and the land the barns were on and the barns but he wanted to continue to park his travel trailer in one of the barns, we said ok. He also said the field behind the house would be my husbands inheritance and that he was going to go ahead and deed it to us and it was ours but when he died my husband wouldn’t get anything like the rest of the grandkids because he would already have his. So we got the deed and pay all the taxes on it. Well a lot of people were praying and God healed him of cancer and he decided to go back on his word. Even though the land is ours and we pay taxes he says its not ours because it’s not fair to the other grandkids (even though he was the one with the idea in the first place) and now he runs his cows on our land. We didn’t care but put our horse on our land and the grandpa moved it off and put it back in my father in laws field, he’s done this many times and says our horse can’t be in our field because our horse runs his (grandpas) cows. Then he starts wanting to park his tractor in our barns and move our stuff out of our shops so he can put his stuff in there, he put his hay for his cows in our yard so he wouldn’t mess up his yard. Stuff like this keeps happening and it makes me so mad. We should be able to keep our horse on our land if we want and our kids love to mess with our horse but because of the grandpa we can’t. I’ve been having so many dreams that we moved back to our first house and were so happy, in my dreams I was begging please don’t let this be a dream because we were so happy. My husband gets upset but really can’t do anything about it because his grandpa will turn the family against us, including my husbands dad. My husband works for his dad and that would make things really hard so he just lets things go. We can’t really afford to move so we’re stuck. Sorry this was so long.