dildo/ vibrator for virgins

Hello sooo .. Y friends and i were talking about sex and i told them that i want to buy a dildo/vibrator and the reaction i got wasn’t what i was expecting They were like “no you’re a virgin your first time should be with a real person not a toy”

But the thing is i dont have a boyfriend and it takes me time to get comfortable with someone so

Q: should i wait ? & Would you guys recommend a sex toy to a virgin?

Im 19 years old btw 🙄

Q: what’s y’all favorite dildo/vibrators?