I am in a long distance relationship that I did to myself. I left him and then we decided to reconcile but I still live with my parents. I want him to move with me but I realize that is unfair to ask but I like being where I am. I have a job, I dont have very many bills and this is where my whole family is. I feel so selfish for moving away and not wanting yo come back. Also I'm 4 months pregnant and we both want our family together. I just don't know which would be better for him to move to where I am or for me to move back to where he is. Really it is a long story, too long to post here.