So I’ve been with my S/O for a while, but I just can’t get my head around what to do with my pubic hairs....

I shave down there every time I know we are going to have sex, and i think it’s easier for him so go down on me... but I don’t like when it’s growing back! It itches and the fact that you can infection without your hairs... I just don’t know.. and plus I can’t design worth a damn... I can’t make a triangle or something cute, what am I doing wrong!? Any advice?