ok so here's the deal. I've been back with my teenage sweetie for 9 year. We have 5 kids now we've had our ups and down and even split up once. I've explained many many times he's too possessive and doesn't show me any affection. he does better for a while and then back to the same cap again.... I know he loves me and I love him . What I can't understand is why are men so damn stupid that they can't understand anything a woman tells them. My kids Learn quicker then he does...I MEAN COME ON WHAT DO WE HAVE TO DO .... DRAW IT OUT IN CRAYON FOR THEM TO CATCH ON!!!!!!