My husband reported me to my mum that I care too much about him. So he told my mum I should care less about him and more about myself. It's not like I don't give him his space or privacy...but he's in his early 40's 0 and hypertensive, all the warnings given to him by the doctor makes no sense to him. Reducing high carbs due to his weight and alcohol consumption.. All he wants to do is work all round the clock or hang out with friends. He won't take his medication and prefer to eat outside cuz I consider his health when preparing his meals. Last night he threatened to beat me up cuz I advised him again and I bruised my wrist from his grip he didn't didn't even consider the fact that I'm 32wks pregnant. Maybe it's time I truly need to care less about him and more about myself and my baby.