Im In a long distant relationship and I feel like I do so much for my bf but he doesn't appreciate me as much as he says he does.

For ex.

He doesn't have his license so I've been helping with lyft.

He and his family are struggling financially so I lended a helping hand.

I visit his town more often than he visits my own town.

When he does visit sometimes because of his financial status I pay for his hotel stays. And when I do visit him I'm constantly catering to him.

We've been together for 3 yrs now he hasn't gotten me 1 gift nor done anything to really make me feel appreciated.

He thinks he does a lot by just talking to me texting calling and just listening to me. Says he's always here for me but doesn't even come to visit. He only comes when it's convenient to him.