I am 5 weeks along and I’m planning to wait until the end of the first trimester to tell most people, but really want to tell my two best friends. The problem is that one of them was recently told that there is zero chance she will ever be able to have a baby, and the other had a miscarriage about six months ago; it hit her very hard and she was extremely depressed for a while she has been trying to conceive again ever since. I don’t want them to be sad that I am pregnant when they are not or pretend to be happy for me if they are not. Should I just wait and tell them with everyone else, or maybe wait a few more weeks? I feel terrible for their situations and we actually got pregnant fairly quickly after stopping BC. I’m still nervous as so many babies have been lost by family members especially my mother but I wish I could share it with my best friends.