Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

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I've endured every kind of abuse by my first boyfriend. 8 years and a whole lot of damage later I left him be cuz he stabbed me,thank God the deepest part went into my arm and he only got my stomach a few times and not very deep be cuz his friend was pulling him off me, I thought I was gonna die that night. My husband now always sees my scars and says i wish i could have been there and saved u from all that he did to u..please if u r in an abusive relationship go..it never gets better.

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I was 16 years old with a man that was 19. He was every teenage girl's wet dream. Motorcycle, had connections, knew where the parties were at, etc. At the beginning of our three year relationship, he would go to my high school classes posing as one of the students until staff started realizing he's not a student. He got kicked out of his mom's house and started to live with my parents and I with promises he would progress in life, go to school, get a job.. he never did. He would pick me up from school to prevent me from walking with my male friend out of fear I would cheat on him. I was never allowed out of his sight, I had to be with him 24/7. He eventually ruined my relationship with my parents and both got kicked out. We were homeless for a good couple of months. We eventually found a room to rent out with a friend of ours. He isolated me from my family and friends and he started to beat me and tried to get me pregnant to stick with him. We eventually got kicked out because he broke a window out of frustration and got all of our stuff robbed. I worked two jobs at the time. He was still unemployed. I worked as a waitress at a Chinese restaurant  and a manager for a gaming center. He was with me at my gaming center job for my full shifts to make sure I didn't flirt with anyone. He stole our rent money to get 500$ worth of ecstasy, and he stole and crashed my first car when he went out drinking after 2 weeks of buying it. He eventually took a job up in Michigan and I saw it as an opportunity to mend relationships with my family and leave him. I'm not in a 4 year relationship with the love of my life that takes care of me. I have a great relationship with my family, currently going back to college, I have a full time job and currently in the process of purchasing my first home!

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Yes punched, kicked and had a barstool used on me. Two children later and we are free from the continuous abuse. Hope he gets the help he needs.

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Not physical but emotional, verbal, and mental...

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I was chocked by an ex boyfriend and he was very controlling. Please if this is happening get help!

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I fell in love at 16 with a kid the same age as me, let’s just say 2 years later I found out he was hard into drugs, likes to hit women, and call them fat so they go anorexic. Needless to say after I found that out, I’m now with a perfect guy, who treats me like a princess!

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I don't want to say yes, but I don't want to say no? If that makes sense. He never hit me or talked down to me, but he drove me away from my friends and family. Wouldn't let me hang out with them or be near them. He had all these rules about what I could and couldn't eat, do, or say. I had a freaking bed time for Christ's sake. He went through my phone every chance he got. Would pick fights over old messages from when we weren't together. Told me I was going to quit smoking (after I'd been smoking for years before him) and broke all my cigarettes. Then he started taking money from me and would say shit like "If you need to buy something, tell me and I will buy it. I don't want you wasting money." I was living with a roommate at the time, and if I took a nap during the day or anything where I wasn't answering my phone within minutes, he would call me 40 times and call my roommate and text her asking where I was and what I was doing. If she told him I was sleeping or showering, he'd yell at her to wake me up or tell me I had 5 minutes left on my shower.

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I have been the verbal abuser. thank you therapy and people who weren't afraid to tell me how horrible I was being.

Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

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