My man and I have been dating for 10 years! We are financially stable, we bought a house together last year, have very little debt aside from our home, plan on getting engaged very soon (recently picked out my ring!) and then planning our wedding for 2018. I really want to start a family; he also wants to start a family, but wants it to "just happen" without actively trying. We made the decision for me to quit the pill about two months ago. Should we REALLY start trying or just continue the whole "trying, not trying" mentality?