I’m 24 weeks pregnant & I’m not sure if I wanna give the baby my ex last name. I’ll give you a quick rundown on why I’m skeptical. 1. When we were together we planned this baby because we were talking about marriage & everything. He gets deployed for a year a month after I have her & he wanted a child before then I had no second thought about giving the baby his last name because we were together & moved out of state together. 2. We ended up breaking up because of him cheating I moved back home, & ever since I left. He has been disrespectful none stop & just been trying to make everything hard for me because I had money tied up with him. 3. We ended up getting back on speaking terms after 4 months just recently. & now he found out I’m talking to someone he knows. Mind you I didn’t know they knew each other but I feel like it’s none of his business because after I moved back home he got another gf two weeks after I left. So I told him he couldn’t question me about who I’m talking too. & he cursed me out through texts & calls calling me all out of my name again. So I put him back on block, o just feel like he doesn’t deserve to give our daughter his name since he hasn’t even been here for emotional or physical support. No I don’t expect him to take care of me but when we were together I had a great job & basically helped him out numerous times when he ain’t have shit. He talks me into moving so I quit my job and moved with him to another state. When I came back home I no longer have a good job. I’m wrking part time, 6 months pregnant, trying to go back to school, & move out of my moms while he’s in apartment I helped him get w/ a new car & a whole bitch he cheated on me with. But when I tell him I need help he makes me feel like I’m begging so I don’t even ask anymore. So how do you guys feel about giving the baby his last name if you were in my situation??