Anyone in the Same Boat?

My husband and I are on the same page about wanting another baby now. We currently have a 2.5 year old daughter who took five months of trying to conceive and I had a fairly rough pregnancy. I am currently 28 years old. I am of the mindset that I want to try as hard as we can to conceive as quickly as we can because I know how difficult mentally the process of trying can be. I want to use ovulation tests and have sex when biology says we have the chances, on top of the normal "because we want to" times. My husband only wants things to happen organically, meaning if we happen to both be "feeling it" at the better chance times, then great, otherwise it feels too forced and that there is no love involved.

Has anyone else dealt with something similar? Anyone with any advice?