Back in July my work transferred me to another city to work with owner of the same business, because our work was being rebuilt.

I went because at first I was gunna take a few months off but I ended up buying a car so I couldn’t afford to take a few months of vacation.

So I got sent to the next city over.

Within the first week my coworker from my old building, joking said to me that the worker who was leaving was my dream guy. (He had long hair, and just overall had the vibe of the guys I usually went with). One of the other workers had proceeded to overhear this and see which guy she was referring to and because I said he was cute, she told me all about him.

This was just the start.

The ENTIRE time I worked there they kept saying we would be cute together.

A month in I had asked if he wanted to go to a baseball game with my hometown workers. The person who was suppose to ask him for me forgot to give him all the information, so he didn’t end up going.

That weekend he asked me and a bunch of coworkers to go out to Chinese.

He made it an effort to come into work and ask me in person while I was working to ask me might I add.

And when he left, everyone said they were ditching so it would be “our first date”.

That Sunday I showed up and it was just him and I, like I was informed. When I told him he actually said that they do it all the time.

(He told me this later on but he knew this was going to end up as a date)

He worked 3rd shift and I worked 1st shift.

There was one day where we had actually worked the same time for a few hours.

My coworker within an hour of working together she referred to him as my boyfriend, then fiancé, then said we were married.

Please realize that we weren’t together. We were just barely friends.

This was actually the day this kid added me on Facebook.

Now flash forward to August.

It’s my last day at this establishment. I asked a bunch of people if they want to hang out and the only one who could make it was this boy.

That day he told me a little about himself while we were in a giant trampoline room.

After this day we hung out basically twice a week and we still do and we talk when we can.

I get asked when we were gunna start dating by my coworkers at home because he comes and visits me from time to time and eats with us when we go to eat breakfast after work.

This is important information:

I asked him to go with me to a suicide walk in memory of my aunt who committed suicide back in August.

And when I asked him I forgot he was suicidal for years before he met me. And he had a moment where he was completely silent and kinda laughed to himself. He was uncomfortable and I could tell. I was crying and so what I did was give him a hug. Not thinking about it.

November 16th, 2017.

This happened when I got home from work:

We went to a movie and he held my hand so I asked him a few days later, if he did it because it was what everyone wanted or if he really wanted to be with me.

Let me explain what I’m not trusting of:

My ex boyfriend from over a year ago had emotionally and sexual abused me. And it scared me to actually be with someone.

But here I am. I have a boy sweeter then sugar.

And this is us: