Baby Boy middle name help ? Please sorry this is long

Okay so baby is due anyway time now depending on my blood pressure, I’ve had bp problems with all my pregnancies. My other 2 kids are 6 & 1 . And they have tradition names . They are Chloe & Liam .

My husband and I decided to Name this baby Ruger (like the gun) . We’ve been back and forth on middle names & cant decide 100% on one . My husband wants Matthew as a middle name bc of one of his friends that got killed at work last year right after our son was born . But another guy my husband knows names his baby after a gun and Matthew after we had already picked our name , but his sons already been born & I didn’t want them to think we were copying them ?. I want Ray bc it’s a family middle name on my side & after my dad who passed away last year . But he says the baby can’t have 2 middle names like Ruger Matthew - Ray bc his name will be to long bc our last name is pretty Long

We also kinda like Ruger Jase (RJ) & that way he won’t really be names after anyone & that’s fine . So which name would y’all pick ? Or just give me more options for a middle name ?