Of my mom making excuses for my dad’s shitty behavior. He has made it so no one can talk to him about concerns that we have about the things he does without him causing a huge argument, yelling and throwing things for hours, calls my mom a “cunt”, etc. He doesn’t take responsibility for anything he does. Every time they fight, she says sorry (even if it’s not her fault) and he doesn’t say anything. I know it’s hard to see the bad things when you love someone but jeez anyone could see that he’s manipulative and vindictive. He doesn’t pick up after himself like a fucking child. Leaves paper plates, raw food, and food wrappers just laying around. I think what bothers me the most is when we’re at my grandparents’ house and he’ll start making fun of things my mom does and tries to make her look stupid in front of her own family. One time he made a joke about how my mom used to use a shock collar on our dog and that’s why he started having seizures (he has epilepsy) but he’s the one who kicked the dog WHEN HE WAS A PUPPY. Who the fuck kicks a puppy? My grandmother (mom’s mom) told me she just tolerates him, but never really liked him and she tried to show my mom how it’s not right the way he treats her but she wouldn’t listen and married him anyway. My mom told me that before they were married he threw a glass ketchup bottle at her and it broke and glass got in her foot. Wtf!! I bet he didn’t even apologize for it either. I wish she had more confidence. I think he’s broken her down in a lot of ways so she thinks she needs him. I’m just tired of living in a toxic household. I can’t wait until I get another job so I can move out again. It makes me sick.