my sister is 40, I'm 19 I have a 16 month old son and ttc she is so insanely jealous of me she has been trying to have a kid for years. my parents died when I was little so I had to come live with my aunt and uncle since I was 3. (her mom and dad) so really she's my cousin. Her parents just died in a fatal car wreck in May. She is jealous because they always wanted a grandchild and I was able to give them one and she hasn't so every time we come out she has some rude negative comment to say about me or him. I let his hair grow out until 15 mo she begged me to get it cut so I did and now it is so fucked up. she always says something about my parenting N about how easy it is to chase him around ( we put baby gates up there bc she has 3 dogs that shit and piss everywhere and the house is no where near baby proof) I told her if she had a toddler she wouldn't want to chase him around in that kind of environment either and she can't even feed or take her dogs out or clean the house! am I wrong for not wanting to take him there?