Should I tell my boyfriend I found his homemade porn online?

Question

So I stumbled upon a video of my SO of 4 years masturbating. I know its him because of tattoos and I can see our house in the background. Im not bothered by it or mad, it honestly turned me on. We never really talk about it, but we both know that the other watches porn. We have a healthy sex life too, so that doesnt bother me either. I just dont know if bringing it up would go really well (😉) or really bad.

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I'd be asking why hes felt the need to upload it online.

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Bring it up. There shouldn’t be secrets in a relationship especially if you say it doesn’t bother you. And since you’re ok with it then I don’t see it causing any fights or anything. Plus he should tell you if he’s going to be exposing his weiner for the world to see.

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That’s awesome that it turned you on and doesn’t bother you. So many girls on this app don’t even let their SO watch porn which is crazy to me! If it were me, I might bring it up or offer to watch porn together and hen pick that one and just be like “this guy is so hot. He turned me on so much” 😉 hehe. But that’s just me. My SO would love that I watched him and masturbated to it. You know your man better then any of us, so it’s totally up to you.

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Sure, maybe you can have a giggle about it.

Should I tell my boyfriend I found his homemade porn online?

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