Holidays with inlaws are fucking bullshit.. [Vent]

My husband dressed our 14 month old in a smocked white outfit with matching shoes (both of which my MIL bought) because my MIL already had a turkey themed outfit for her to wear today.. but didn't give it to us to put her in. (Apparently its dirty.. and has been for 2 weeks but she hasn't cleaned it)

As soon as my husband walked in the door with our daughter he got the most disgusted look at was told that our 14 MONTH OLD CHILD looks like "SHIT" and that we never put her in anything she buys, and we are ungrateful. (note that she's wearing 100% things my mil has bought.. and 90% of the time she visits she's wearing something she bought)

She told my husband we embarrass her, and make our child always look like "fucking shit" and she didn't spend hundreds of dollars on clothes for our child so that we can embarrass her... 😐

She started attacking me (i wasn't there) for being lazy and not trying when i dressed her.. my husband said that he did, because I was busy (cooking) to which she replied "BUSY? What is she fucking expecting company? She can't get off her ass and do her job?" As if it's illegal or wrong for the husband to pick clothes.... 😒 plus I'm cooking things for HER thanksgiving that she TOLD ME I HAD TO BRING.. but she isn't getting cause I'm not fucking going over there anymore.