My boyfriend or my job?

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and 2 months and we also work together, everything was so perfect at the beginning his so nice and sweet, we also live together I'm only 20 & my boyfriend is 21, we live at his place, I always help him out with stuff around the house but he leaves a mess everywhere, my boyfriend always complains that I never help cleaning that I'm a lazy bitch, we fight about this all the time I don't know where to put my stuff I don't have space for me at his place I feel stuck and I've been dealing with other stuff that I feel like I should have someone there for me emotionally and he just make fun of me for being to emotional, which them makes me more sad sometimes I don't even want to get out of bed sometimes, I also don't want to leave him I love his so much, but the way this are going I don't think we are going to last that long and it breaks my heart. P.s. He also play way to much Xbox to which also gets me annoyed 🙄 especially when I'm trying to talk to him his just turn on the Xbox and ignores me 🙄🙄🙄

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working and living together? whoa! it's sounding like you both may need a little space.

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Sounds like you were coworkers that jumped waaaaaaay too fast into things.

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If youre going to stay with him I recommend working at a different job

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Honestly I agree with others that you both need some alone time and to maybe find a new job. Even if he's grumpy bc he needs alone time, he should not be disrespecting you like he does. He sounds like a jerk and maybe someone you don't want to be with? I'm a little bit messier than my bf and we live together but he'd never call me a lazy bitch!

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Sounds like you are either a live in maid or personal assistant. 
You deserve a man who will be there for you no matter what and won't tear you down.

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Leave him..he has no respect for you

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Give him some space. Go get a job someplace else and take some time while he's at work to make space for yourself. Or after everything settles ask him what he's okay with you moving so you can put your things there. 
I sorta have final say over where things go in my apartment with my boyfriend. He gets certain shelves, the bigger side of the closet, smaller dresser, etc. I also hate picking up after him. If no one is coming over I leave it out for him to clean. It isn't good to let your boyfriend say you have to pick up after him. You aren't his mother. Tell him that if he's so set on only you cleaning. My agreement with my boyfriend is that I will clean dishes, the apartment, and care for the kittens because he works. I only go to school. He goes to school and works. It's a fair trade.

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leave him if he's calling you a bitch. any man who has that little Respect for his woman isn't a man, he's a boy, and you don't want to date a boy. if you don't want to dump him, try counseling

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1. he does not respect you. big red flag. 2. love is not enough. you know its the end.

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My boyfriend and I work together too, move in after 5 months of dating. Sometimes it can get a little tough but we’ll either clean on our own for a bit or just chill on our phones. The only time he plays xbox is when I’m at work and he’s home waiting for me. It sounds like your dude is pretty disrespectful towards you, I’d say dont put up with it

My boyfriend or my job?

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