i am peeved!

to my coworker,

if i tell you i am wanting to be a mother do not question me. i owe you no explanations and its really not even your business. your job is to shut your mouth and wish me the best.

yes i know im young,

yes i know it will be hard,

yes i know i should get an education,

yes i know babies are alot of work,

yes i know social like will suck (as if i had friends . ha!)

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR TELLING ME THESE THINGS . CONGRATULATIONS!! YOURE THE THOUSANDTH PERSON TO SAY THIS TO ME. HERES YOUR PRIZE a big ol' fuck you.

and HOW DARE you question my husband and i's ability to parent and our financial status. we have PLENTY of money and support.

now why the fuck would i take advice from a 50 year old woman that has literally done nothing with her life. she works a minimum wage job. hasnt gone to college. hasnt done a damn thing.

id think she was actually concerned about my and my babys well being if it wasnt for the fact that she was ridiculing me to the point of tears. i know she just wants to argue and tell me how much of a bad mother i will be because im not a fucking rocket scientist , surgeon, making billions every month and im not 32 year old which i beleive someone said is the "appropriate age to have children"

this is my life, my body and soon to be babys life. this dosent concern anyone except my husband and i.

it peeves me so bad when people jump in and put their opinion in my head. they dont know me like that. they dont know my life. they have no idea of knowing what i am capable. or incapable of. and can not tell me what type of mother i will be to my children.

i just cant fathom why they feel the need to bring ttc and expecting mothers down.

anyway if youre still reading thank you for taking the time out to listen to this painfully long rant.

**rant over**