So about a week ago I took one of those stupid quizzes on Facebook that was called “when are you getting married”. My boyfriend’s dad, who has never liked me in the 2 years me and my BF have been together, comments very rudely and it was hurtful (I’ll post pics). My mom, being a protective momma bear, very calmly stands up for me stating that everyone knows he doesn’t like me and he need not talk to me like that again. Well, this starts world war 3 in our relationship. People are commenting, standing up for me, telling my mom that I’m lucky to have her, and telling me that they’re sorry I I have to hear such hateful things. So his dad tells him that if he stays with me he can’t live there anymore and he loses his phone, truck, private school, (he’s 18 and graduates in 6 months, I’m 20) and his relationship with his dad forever. But if he stays he can have a relationship with his dad, keep his truck and brand new phone, continue to go to his school, and not have to worry about College (his dad is loaded beyond belief). My BF promises me that he is gonna choose me and we can make things work. We had everything figured out, transportation, my old phone, work something out with his teacher, and he had several places to stay (friends, me, and a few people he looks up to). We had it all worked out and then he was talking to his teacher/role model and she told him that if what we have is real I would wait for him to graduate and he could still live with his dad and have everything that he still has. That was enough to change his mind. “If you love me then you’ll....” etc. He won’t break up with me, I’ve tried. I’ve tried to break up wit him, he won’t let me. We sneak around to talk and text, but he isn’t allowed to be around me. He says he chose to stay at home because he knew I would wait for him and we could always be together but he didn’t know that in the future he’d have a relationship with his dad. I get that, but he broke all of his promises he’s ever made and my heart.

What do I do? Do I stick around for 6 months patiently waiting for my boyfriend to graduate? Do I stop all communication with him? Do I play the role of supportive girlfriend? I’m heartbroken, and everything hurts.