so im 25yo ,my SO is 32yo and im 34weeks 1day. ive had a friend i wanted to tell i was pregnant from the 12week point but i found out i was high risk.I was in and out of hospital and going through a lot of personal matters(as was she) so it seemed like everytime we planned on meeting(really wanted to tell her in person,because i feel a text isnt right) it just never worked out,example

we where suppose to get together this past weekend,i ended up with the flu after a housing court matter the weekend before

She going through family issues right now

where she's bad mouthing anyone for having kids,calling them stupid morons or exclaiming they should have had it"taken care of"

She not the only person i havent told i was pregnant shes just a friend who Ive felt has been in bad place the last year over family stuff n realizing shes close to her 50s n has no SO, children or close family members but now im worried she will take me not telling her negatively.