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I’m 22 weeks tomorrow and i just found out my SO is texting other females. they didn’t reply but it still hurts. i just don’t know what to do. i love him and want to work this out but i just feel so worthless, as he calls me fat dumb ect ect. am i wrong for trying to make it work ? or should i just give up

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If he is trying to get with other women, and calling you names, you probably should leave the situation. You don't deserve it!!

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Honestly if he’s making rude comments to you like that & trying to contact other females. He seems to not care much about you. If you stay with him after knowing all this, he will think his behavior is okay & that he can continue to do what he’s doing to you & possibly even take it a step further.

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If he calls you those types of things you should not take it. It’s just going to damage your psyche if you let it happen. If he’s texting other girls, I would leave. Stay at a family member or friends for a few days and see if you bring gone will make him want to change his ways. If not, then you know where you stand. It’s going to be hard but I never want women to take shit like this. I have in the past, and once you are treated respectfully you know your worth. I hope it all works out for you! And don’t worry, things happen for a reason!

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I wouldn't suggest trying to make it work.  he's calling you names for no reason?

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Woah. Wait. He calls you fat and dumb?? Leave his ass. He’s trying to cheat on you and treats you like shit. Leave him. Get child support and live with family or friends. Better yourself and move on. I know I would. It’s not going to be easy but it will be worth it. Do it before the baby comes.

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That’s so mean. He shouldn’t treat you that way

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If you are trying to make it work because there is a child involved the simple answer is don’t. He can be a shitty boyfriend but a fine father. There is no reason for him to treat you like that and it is unacceptable, if he wants to look at other woman and talk to them(even ones that clearly want nothing to do with them) then tell him to get lost and have fun chasing them if he feels he can do better. Focus on your happiness as wells as the babies.

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