Pelvic exams during pregnancy

If you're going to be rude, don't comment.

But I don't want to do them till the end of my pregnancy. I do not feel comfortable at all. Imagine someone having the fear of heights & they can't do them. If they do them, they'll have a panic attack and pass out.

That's how I am with showing my body to just some stranger. I DO NOT feel comfortable & even if I tried doing it, I wouldn't be able to finish the process of it.

I don't think anyone understands. I Always get asked, do you not care about your baby? You have to do them etc.

But no one tells me why & if they do the reasons of doing them is high unlikely to happen to you.

Of course I care about my baby. I'm not some heartless human being. I just can't get myself to spread my lengths to a stranger.

Seriously, is it necessary?

Please don't be mean. I'm trying my hardest to accept that I have to show my vagina during birth and I know I'm going to freak tf out & probably have a panic attack.

I have been this personal since I was little. So out of all people, I figured my family would understand.

I'm only 4 weeks. Why can't I have time to process that I'm pregnant? They all want me to jump and see a doctor but I've been reading some articles and majority of the time the doctor don't see you until about 12 weeks.

UPDATE: Thank you SO much for the positive feedback. I love how you girls understand how I feel! It seriously makes me feel worse when someone judges me. I was so scared to post this because I thought I was going to get hateful comments 😞 I have no one to talk to besides my boyfriend and I'm so glad you girls are just letting me know your experiences.