Helppp meeeeeee

Ok. So Iā€™m 14, heā€™s 16 almost 17. He saw me at a volleyball game and asked around and found out who I was. He found me on Instagram and messaged me. He explained he saw me and thought I was stunning and then he said heā€™d ljke to get to know me more. So, anyways we started playing 20 questions and he asked ā€œare u into ddlg?ā€ And I am so ofc I said yes. So ever since Iā€™ve been his babygirl and heā€™s my daddy. Iā€™m super into him, and he wants to ā€œchillā€ on Friday. He said he wants road head on the way to his house. One problem, Iā€™ve never given head or had sex. And I know heā€™s gonna want to fuck me. I donā€™t know how I would ask my mom to hang out with him because I feel like she wouldnā€™t like that especially since heā€™s 16 and Iā€™ve never mentioned him before. Should I try to sneak out? He lives like 20-30 minutes away. Also... is what Iā€™m doing wrong? Should I wait to have sex until I know I really know heā€™s not gonna just use me? Helpppp guys pleasešŸ˜­ and please donā€™t judge I know I shouldnā€™t be doing this yet but itā€™s so tempting. Please help.