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I recently lost my virginity a few weeks ago and tonight I'm having sex again. It would be my 3rd time. I know it's only my 3rd time and I'm not a pro or anything lol but I feel like I can still try some things to surprise my boyfriend. Needing tips on relaxing and not being so shy + how to take the d + bj tips + how to prepare + how to initiate. Also would love to read what you girls enjoy doing !!