Anger :(
I️ve been with my fiancé for 11 months now and he is a very sweet godly man who I️ love with all my heart. Unfortunately I’ve gotten to the point where I cannot handle his anger issues. I know bipolar disorders are a very serious thing but I honestly have to question if he has I️t and is undiagnosed. He goes from happy and sweet to a fierce anger within minutes for the smallest things I️ do. He is from Colombia and before you say nuhhuh, there is a deffinatly culture difference in what the men expect from their woman. An example was last night he went to bed happy, but I️ never went to bed and I️ had to pull And all nighter for college exam paper due today, and he I originally thought this morning everything was OK and I made pancakes from scratch and I was in a happy mood and I thought we were going to have a lovely morning. When all of a sudden he sits down and is incredibly angry at me for reasons he will not tell me. I try to give him kisses and he told me not to annoy him and to shut up continuously😭. At first I thought he was joking and when I started to say “look at the sunrise asked God to make it beautiful for you this morning” he told be to shut up And he would not even let me tell him my sweet comments to lift his moods. He is not a bad man so please don’t just tell me to leave him. I like responses from some women who have been in similar relationships or are in a marriage and our learning to live with this and help their husbands. Like I said I firmly believe he has a type of anger or bipolar disorder which is not his fault but I would hate to leave him ever. 😭 His anger makes me cry and stress continuously which I do not want to live with for all my life but if there are steps I can take to help the both of us please give so much
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