How to get over his past?

Question

I know this sounds immature and childish but I cannot get over how many girls he has slept with. I dont know a number but I know he definitely got around. We’ve been dating for four months and he’s amazing. He doesnt seem like the “fuckboy” type at all but I know he was. I’ve only slept with one other person who was my first love and long term relationship. I have high anxiety and the thought of him with all these other girls literally consumes me. How do I get over it. I keep telling myself, hes with me, he doesnt think about them and his past is not my business. But it lingers in the back of my mind ALL the time. I literally cant stop thinking about it. (I assure you that I know I sound like an insecure child, but i just need a way to stop thinking so much) Advice??

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You kinda just have to accept it eventually if you really want to be with him. It's not like either of you can change the number or he can take it back or anything. And if they were all before y'all met, you can't really be mad about it. 
My boyfriend has been with somewhere around 60 girls. He offered up the information, I didn't want exact number. I don't like that he's had sex with that many people (idk, just a head thing or insecurity thing I think) but I just ignore that fact honestly. He's not cheating, he loves me, they were all before me. 
There isn't any perfect advice for getting over that fact. I guess it just comes down to whether you want to be with them more than you dislike the number of people they've slept with.

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You’re definitely struggling with some insecurities. Until you can sort that out with yourself, you’re not going to stop feeling this way

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My boyfriend has a horrible past but I trust him so much to know that if he was done with me he would have enough respect to tell me before cheating. If you can't get over his past then you cant be together. You'll drive your self crazy and it will cause issues in the relationship. You have to trust him and if he disrespects your trust then leave for good and count your blessings. He isn't worth crying over if he turns out to be a fuck boy. (Hope this makes sense.)

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I don’t think it’s so much insecurities. I go through the same thing and it has nothing to do with me being insecure about myself . Just the thoughr of him with other girls break my heart . Mostly because it’s like someone having a part of what’s yours and it hurts . If that makes sense . It just bothers me that so many girls have been with him . It’s a terrible thought I know :(

How to get over his past?

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