I finally found strength to leave my shitty relationship

*** UPDATE ***

He came to get the rest of his things and he destroyed my apartment in the process. So I pushed him out and threw his shit off the balcony. A little much, but he fucking deserved it!! We have a fur baby (a cat) and he about kicked him while getting his things!!! I can’t believe I loved him for this long and put up with it!! OH AND YOU WOULDNT BELIEVE. He THREATENED ME because someone had messed with his car and he blamed me telling me he’s gonna take me to court. I haven’t left my apartment in 3 days because I’ve been cleaning up his mess. I GUARANTEE it was the girls bf. The girl he cheated with has a bf too btw. And I messaged him a screenshot of one of their messages. So I’m pretty sure it was him. No matter how mad I get I wouldn’t go so low to vandalize. Anyway. Moral of the story, FUCK THIS GUY. I hope this chick doesn’t choose him, so then he goes home (he moved back in with his mom) and is absolutely miserable by realizing what he lost. 👍🏻

My boyfriend and I had been together almost 2 years. He’s been pretty unfaithful from about month 3. They were always just messages and pictures. Of course I was hurt, but I forgave him because I loved him so much. Recently, he’s been talking to this girl he works with. I had a gut feeling something was wrong. We argued a little about it and he convinced me I had trust issues and I needed to go see a counselor again. Which I did. For us. Because I wanted things to work. This was over a month ago. He’s been staying out way later than he gets off work, making up random excuses, showing no affection, etc. He left his phone on his car seat when he went inside to Walgreens and she texted him that she can’t wait until she can hold him and kiss him and touch him again. I broke. I walked my ass home at 2am in 18 degree weather (I’m in the middle of Nebraska, it’s cold as hell right now). It took him 20 minutes to realize I left and to call me. He got home and I took his key and kicked his ass tf out. Fucking bastard..

I found a strength I didn’t know I had. All you ladies here have been inspiring me to take charge of my life. I owe some thanks to all of you. 💕